Author: Aldersgate

2417 Getz Road* Fort Wayne* Indiana* 46804

Winter 2011-2012

The Gate Post

This Issue:

From the Pastor & the
Associate Pastor
P. 2 & 3

Lifetree
Sr. Adult Ministries
Special Holiday Offerings
P. 4 & 5

Youth Ministries
& Preschool
P. 6& 7

Children’s Ministries
P. 8 & 9

Music, Worship & Arts
P. 10-12

Missions and Outreach
Ministries
P. 13-15

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From The Pastor

When we went to this format for newsletters some years ago (How many years you ask? I don’t know! Who remembers these things anyway?) I asked the staff to use this format to look back. One of the things I don’t think we do well is reflect on where we have been and what has taken place in our midst. I had in mind a magazine like format that would editorialize and interpret events and decisions in the life of the church. That was the guiding rule for the Quarterly Newsletter, like the one you hold in your hand.
No, don’t bother going to dig out all the old ones that you faithfully archived to read again and again. Don’t bother because none of us could do it. Wait, let me restate that. None of us could do it in this space. We can do reflection and analysis. We do it all the time as we plan and work and hope. Plus we are constantly being asked to do so by our institutional structures, denomination and conference, administrative board and finance committee, and by you the congregation of the Aldersgate Community who seek out discipleship and fellowship opportunities that are well-considered and planned. We reflect and analyze and critique and reconsider all the time. But we couldn’t do it in this newsletter in the way that I had envisioned.
I now see that as a good thing. Even though no one followed directions, I am still proud of the staff who wrote for the newsletter. Because there is this exuberant desire to look to the future. It’s like I was holding them back from what they really wanted to do. We want to look ahead, to tell you what is coming, to build excitement for the next thing, rather than dwell on what was - as good as it might have been.
So, we are changing tack again. With it will come a reformatting of bulletin and newsletter to help signal a new start. I am excited to tell you about plans underway for 2012. I am naming this next year as “A Year of Taking Jesus Seriously.” In part I want us to go back to our roots, or as the book of Revelation says, to reclaim our first love. (Rev. 2:4) What if, we will be asking, Jesus really meant what he said? It just might be the most difficult and yet rewarding year of your life. At least that is my prayer for you.
There are two main components to this plan. One is an invitation to join with your church family in reading through the Bible in a year. I am presenting a format for this reading during worship on November 20th and am inviting folks to sign up to read a little bit each day throughout 2012. There are support and communication opportunities available for those who read along. Contact me or the church office for more information. We will begin our reading on January 1st.
The second piece is a year-long worship focus. Not a single year- long theme - we would all get tired of that, I am sure, but a series of themes and stand-alone services that are all pointing in the same direction - helping us know and hear and follow Jesus. A brochure of all the themes and scriptures is being prepared and should be available soon. But we will consider such topics as Calling and Vocation, Time, Spiritual Disciplines, Love and Relationships, Simplicity and many more. There are plans for an “Ask the Pastor” series in the summer where you get to ask the questions you’ve always wanted to ask about our church or our faith. So, start thinking now!
Supporting the year there will be other opportunities to learn and grow within our theme. A reading list will be produced to support each of our worship themes. So should you or your small group wish to read alongside the series you will be able to. In addition you can sign up for daily reminders through email or facebook or twitter as well as weekly reminders in the bulletin to help keep you on track for the Bible reading.
No wonder we want to look ahead. 2012 looks to be a wonderful, possibly transforming year in the life of the Aldersgate Community. I’m hoping that you will be on board.
Shalom, Derek

2012
A Year of Taking Jesus Seriously

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From the Associate Pastor

Every time my family has been moved, the same thing seems to happen: a new Harry Potter book or movie is released. And because there are no more Harry Potter books or movies to be released in the future, we hope it is a sign that we won’t be moving for a very long time.
Now that the truck has piled all of our belongings haphazardly in our new home, my family has slowly been making order out of the ensuing chaos. We’re slowly finding our way around our home, around town (though Joy has a distinct advantage over me in that regard since she was born here), and I’m slowly learning my way around Aldersgate United Methodist Church. Even my study at the church is starting to look like it’s actually usable.
There’s always a bit of a learning curve with starting a new position, and since my position itself is brand new I think my learning curve might just curl all the way around until it runs into itself. Here is what I’ve learned so far about how I will be ministering within our community.
First, I love worship, so I was very excited to know that worship is at the center of the vision of what Aldersgate UMC is aspiring to be. After all, the reason the name Aldersgate is so common in Methodism is because of a worship experience John Wesley had at a society meeting in 1738 on Aldersgate Street in London.
Some other areas of ministry in which I’ll be working include hospitality toward new visitors, and our HeartLINKS small groups (which is another important inheritance of our Wesleyan tradition).
I’ll also be overseeing the areas of Senior Adult Ministries, Youth Ministries, and Children’s Ministries. This oversight is more of an administrative/support role, but it means that I get to work together with many of the great people we have on staff, including our two new Youth Pastors: Amanda Keener and Stephen Case.
I’m very excited to be here at Aldersgate. I’ve enjoyed getting to know my colleagues on staff and many of you in the congregation, and I look forward to the ministry we will do together as fellow servants of Jesus Christ.
Rev. Christopher Millay

From The Pastor Part Two….

Somewhere in the newsletter is a list of leadership for 2012. Do me a favor and go find it. And when you do take a moment and read it over. Study the names, the familiar ones and the strangers both. Some you will look at and nod, thinking, “this one is the one I would have picked.” Others you may look at and think, “why?” You may find your name on this list. Or you may not be there this time - and that may bother you or relieve you.
If there is a role you’d like to fill sometime in the future, all you have to do is ask. Sometimes waiting for someone to come and ask you works. More often it doesn’t. So, ask. Find one of the names on the list that you know and ask them, or come ask me. We love it when folks step up to serve. And we are always looking for new avenues of service. If you have a ministry idea that you would like to work through your church, please let me know. This is your church, as much as, or more than mine!
Two more requests when looking at this list: First of all, some folks have served in various positions for a long time. If you are aware of those individuals, please go out of your way to say thank you for their service. We have been blessed by many wonderful, Christ-like servants in the leadership of the Aldersgate Community. Please join me in expressing gratitude for their service.
And finally, my last request in regards to this list – pray for them. Add a leader/servant a day to your prayers. Or spend one devotion time a week lifting up all the leader/servants of the church. We need to go forward as one body, wrapped in prayer, open in conversation and determined in hope. We are all leader/servants in that.
Shalom,
Derek

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Ever Wonder what kind of impact Lifetree café is having on the participants? Below are a few comments left on the cards we collect:
"I have been struggling with going back to church b/c I have been burned by Christians/the church many times, but I feel really good about coming here and it has alleviated some very strong fears."
“Interesting topic. I just lost my father to terminal cancer.”
“The story of Kimberly is an important one that addresses how men and women relate to each other. This is such a big issue for men who look at women as sex objects.”
“This is a good ministry opportunity. Real thoughts & real discussion. There is not enough discussion with people today.”
“I walked in to buy coffee and caught the last 15 minutes of discussion. Loved it and will come back.”
“I enjoyed my first time here. The topic was a big one for me, as we have endured a lot of “bad luck” the last 6 years. Trying to keep our faith in God. Thank You.”
“I had very little knowledge or expectation of what would take place. I was completely overwhelmed with emotion and feel this is an amazing ministry!”
“I realize I equated hurts by those in the church to God letting me down. They were the imperfect glass through which I need to see a perfect God.”
“Today’s session was a beautiful reminder of God’s grace. May I learn more from the trials as Denise did to equip, encourage & empower others.”
“Probably best for me so far—especially “What do they Believe” handout and opportunity to question why I really do believe in Christianity.”
“Great topic—Amish Grace is a book that I read several months ago but still is one of those that deeply effected me. Forgiveness immediate—what an example for all of us.”
“Friendly people, Caring people. I felt loved.”
“Excellent session. I like the ‘bait and switch’ approach. Talk about violence in TV, sports, etc… then talk about violence in the Bible! Very thought provoking.”
More great topics on the way
Dec 4 - (Best of Lifetree) Muslims: What they really think about you
Dec 11 - (Best of Lifetree) FatherLess: Getting past the pain of an absent or abusive dad
Dec 18 - (Best of Lifetree) Tough on Crime: Too tough? Not tough enough?
Dec 25 – Closed
Jan 1 – Be Yourself…Everyone else is taken
Jan 8 – Family Secrets: What Mama never told us
Jan 15 – Lighten Up! De-stress and lift your spirit
Jan 22 – Giving Up on God: The rise of atheism
Jan 29 – Simplify Your Life: How a Hollywood millionaire walked away from it all
Feb 5 – The End is Near? Countdown to the apocalypse
Feb 12 – Can God Love a Mess Like Me? Exclusive interview with the author of the bestseller The Shack
Feb 19 – Playing God: Is science going too far?
Feb 26 – Losing a Loved One to Alzheimer’s: A daughter’s dilemma

Lifetree Café meets Sunday nights at Mocha Lounge, 6312 Covington Road 5:30 - 6:30PM.
Information: LifetreeCafe.com or Pastor Don Wismer 432-1524 x278.

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Senior Adult Ministries

COME JOIN OUR SENIOR ADULT ACTIVITIES

We have a very active Senior Adult Ministry here at Aldersgate.
JOLLY GATERS
Our program that has been around the longest. We meet the 3rd Tuesday of every month at the church for a carry-in luncheon, program and lots of fellowship. We eat out in January, February and March, then back to the church in April.
Here are some of our upcoming events:
Tuesday, December 13 at 12:00 noon
Meet at the church for a Catered Christmas Luncheon. Sign up in Market Place on Sunday, Dec 4th and 11th. Cost is $10.00
Dr. Weber will present the program.
We will sing carols and enjoy this time with friends
WE INVITE ALL OF YOU TO COME!
Tuesday, Jan. 17th at 11:30 a.m. (note time change)
We will all meet at Smokey Bones at
Jefferson Pointe for a time of fellowship
and good food.
Tuesday, Feb. 21 at 11:30 a.m.
We will meet at the Pizza Hut, here at Times Corner, for pizza and enjoy their
buffet. Come for a good time with friends. Everyone is invited.
OUR LAST TIME TO EAT OUT IS:
Tuesday, March 20 at 11:30 a.m.
We will meet at Zianos on Dupont Rd
in area of new Kroger Store.
Come and join us!!!!!
SENIOR ADULT COUNCIL
This is the planning committee which meets the 2nd Thursday of each month.
BAKE SALE Sunday, October 23rd
Proceeds used to pay for Veterans Lunches at our luncheon, November 6th.
Sunday, November 6th following 2nd service.
Catered Luncheon honoring our Veterans. Musical Program to follow.

.Our next SUNDAY LUNCHEON will be
February 12th. at 11:15 a.m.
More information later. We will enjoy a time of the “oldies but goodies” as we are serenaded with Benny Goodman, Glenn Miller and others.
If you have any
questions, you may
always contact
Ellen Rhoades at
432-1524 or
emr 7962@comcast.net
SENIOR ADULTS ARE AN IMPORTANT PART IN THE LIFE OF
ALDERSGATE
CHURCH

Are the Holidays Getting You Down?

Do you find yourself wishing they were over?
Are you having a hard time with the holidays because of the loss of a loved one whether by death, divorce or perhaps distance?
Come and meet with Ellen Rhoades and let’s discuss what we can do to help all of us. Ellen has experienced loss and also is trained as a Grief Counselor and a Grief Facilitator.
It doesn’t matter if your loss was recent or in the past, it still hurts. We can help each other.
We will meet Sunday, December 4th and
Sunday, December 11th at 11:00 a.m. in the Lounge.

BLUE CHRISTMAS WORSHIP SERVICE
Sunday, December 18th at 5:00p.m.
in the Sanctuary
Christmas can be a painful time. The loss of loved ones, the anguish of a broken relationship, the insecurity of employment, the weariness of health, the pain of isolation, or the pressure of holiday preparations and activity— all these can make us feel alone in the midst of celebrations of the season. A space and time is needed to acknowledge the sadness and concern that may be present.
We will hold a quiet, meditative, worship service that makes time for remembering, time for sharing our hurting places with God, time for preparing our hearts for the coming of Christ.
The sanctuary will be filled with candles and soft music. Scripture,
stories, prayer, candle lighting, and communion will be a part of the service.
It will be followed by a time of light refreshments and fellowship with others. We need you, your memories and your prayers.
Please come and join us. Call Ellen Rhoades for more information (432-1524).

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Youth Ministry

Experience. It is what shapes who we are and who we become. Experiences are what make up our days and our weeks and our lives. Sometimes we choose our experiences and sometimes they happen by surprise. Though the experiences we have can be enjoyable or painful, uplifting or discouraging, God is in the midst of each of them. Do we really believe that? Do we live as though God is in the middle of our experiences and interactions at school? Do we remember that God is present in our experiences with our family? Do we look for God in the classroom, the family room, the band rehearsal, our job, the soccer game? We only spend a few hours of our week at church. If church is the only place we experience God, then there is a lot of our lives that God is not a part of.
When we think of where youth ministry happens, we probably think of Sunday night youth group, or Girls LINKS, or youth musicals. But what we need to remember is that ministry mostly happens outside of the church. It happens during the week as we live our lives hopefully in a way that shows others there is something different about us. Youth ministry isn’t just about ministering to youth, it is also about youth being ministers to others.
There is a mural in the Down Under stairwell that was painted by some of our youth several years ago. It reads: God is a verb, not a noun. What they mean by that is that God is about doing. He is about experience and action. Jesus certainly set the example for this. He taught others mainly by doing. Jesus led his disciples by providing them with experiences. He took them to a dead girl and raised her back to life before their eyes. He took them to a withered fig tree and used it to teach a lesson. When the crowd of five thousand people were hungry, Jesus told his disciples “You feed them” and he worked a miracle through their actions.
In the coming months, youth ministry at Aldersgate is going to start to look a little different. Yes, the same trips and programs will continue, but hopefully with a change in focus and approach. We know that the Christian life should be about experiencing God in our everyday life, and so we want to provide youth with more opportunities to live out their faith outside the walls of the church. Different activities such as Me-’N-U and Red Bird have shown us that youth are capable and ready to put their faith into action.
So where do you fit into this? If you are a youth, we invite you to take advantage of upcoming opportunities to get your hands dirty and experience God in fresh ways. Be prepared for Sunday night youth group to be less about sitting and learning lessons and more about applying and experiencing lessons. We also invite youth to step forward with ideas and leadership because it is your youth group after all. Our hope is that Aldersgate youth ministry is a place where you as a youth have a voice that is heard.
If you are an adult and this sounds like too much fun to miss, we invite you to come be a part of it! We can always use more adults who are willing to get to know our youth and be an example for them. Successful youth ministries depend on the support and enthusiasm of adults. One of the easiest ways you can support youth ministry is by encouraging the youth you know to be involved.
If you have read this far, thank you! We hope that you are now as excited as we are and have caught a glimpse of the vision for where youth ministry is moving. We hope that by giving youth more hands-on experiences we will help equip them to look for God in all the experiences of their everyday lives.

Stephen Case
Director of Middle School Ministry
Stephen@aldersgatecommunity.com

Amanda Keener
Director of High School Ministry
Amanda@aldersgatecommunity.com

ALDERSGATE PRESCHOOL, WINTER 2011-2012

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Registration for the 2012/2013 school year, January 24, 2012

And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.
Deuteronomy 6:6-9
Read more: http://www.whatchristianswanttoknow.com/bible-verses-about-children-25-inspirational-scripture-quotes/#ixzz1d9SRMjaUin a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it”
- Proverbs 22:6

Preschool Registration
Have you toured Aldersgate
Preschool?
Call Jill or Lynn to set up a tour 432-4507 or e-mail them at
preschoolataldersgate@yahoo.com
CURRENT OPENINGS AVAILABLE!
Brochures with class schedule and fees for 2012/2013 will be available soon.
Look for new schedules, forms and prices at
aldersgatecommnity.com/
ministries/preschool.
Thanks to those working on the Task Force! We are excited for the next year!
Would you like to assist one or two mornings a week in a preschool classroom? Well, we have the place for you. Give Jill or Lynn a call and we can fill you in on what would be needed and the time commitment required.

What’s new at preschool . . .
A Big Thank you to Marlane for sharing her beautiful Native American instruments with Miss Annette and Miss Krista’s class. The children loved the “big” flutes! They also enjoyed watching some of the native dances on her I-Pad. They learned what a “Pow Wow” was and the significance it has to their Native American Culture and way of life. If you get a chance, stop by room 105 and see the huge teepee! Thanks to Miss Annette and her husband Tim for creating such an amazing environment of learning.
With the holidays upon us, we will share seasonal music, make special holiday decorations and display some in the preschool hallway! We will also talk about the nativity story, Hanukah, and Kwanza. Miss Jill will be joined by Pastor Chris in December as we celebrate Advent with the children. Pastor Chris is even going to bring along his guitar!! Thanks Chris!
Our Winter School Break this year is from Dec. 19 - Jan. 2, 2012. Preschool will not be in session during this time. On Dec. 19, 20 & 21 Before School and After School Care will be open for those children attending FWCS. Preschool will resume on Jan. 3, 2012.
Don’t forget that we now follow FWCS for all snow days. Be sure to listen in the morning for FWCS announcements. If FWCS delays we do not delay. Before School and Preschool will begin on time. If FWCS has a snow day, then we will be closed. This is different from years past, so please be prepared to make this change!
There will be no school on MLK Day (Mon. Jan. 16) or President’s Day (Mon. Feb. 20). We will recognize these as holidays like FWCS does.
On Jan. 25 & 26 it is “School Wide Pajama Day”! This is my favorite day of the year. Who doesn’t want to go to work in their PJ’s? I keep a pair of fuzzy slippers under my desk - just for the occasion!
Thank you Aldersgate! You are such a great community of love and support.
Miss Jill
Special Thanks for all the great supplies being donated! We are so grateful for the generosity. It is a huge help to the budget.

Chick-fil-A Spirit Night in September raised $291.00 for the preschool!! Thank you so much for your support. Our second will be on Monday, January 23 from 5 - 7 pm at Jefferson Pointe. Plan to join us for dinner, a creative art activity and fellowship with friends. We receive 15% of all sales (including drive-through) for 2 hours.
This is a great way to help with fundraising, and you don’t have to buy anything but a yummy dinner!!

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Kids Learning In the Name of our King and Savior

But Jesus called the children to him and said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. I tell you the truth, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it.“ Luke 18:16-17

Aldersgate Kids on a Mission with
Operation Christmas Child
Over 100 Shoe Boxes were filled!!!
In October the children were challenged to do more with this mission project than last year when they filled 67 shoe boxes. They excitedly said they would fill 100 shoe boxes and wanted to pair up with the youth of Aldersgate to make this happen. On November 2nd, the children came to Kid’s Club and with the help of adults and youth wrapped and prepared 83 shoe boxes to be filled the following week. They new they were just short of their goal of 100 so they went home and worked hard on the mission project. On November 9th, during Kid’s Club time, the children filled 96 shoeboxes with gifts for other children around the world! They anticipated not only reaching their goal of 100 shoe boxes but exceeding it as some children brought more boxes to worship on Sunday, November 13th for a blessing before being shipped around the world.
Operation Christmas Child is the biggest hands-on mission project that the children participate in each year. It is a way for them to get involved and learn that mission gifts are something you choose to do and something of you that you share with others around the world.
We are blessed to have so many young missionaries joyfully sharing their gifts with the world!

Kid’s Club is walking Thru the Bible in 2012!
Join us as we have fun learning about God and building lifelong friendships. Wednesdays from 5:30-7:30pm
We welcome all children in Kindergarten—5th grade & friends. No need to sign up or register … just come & have fun learning about God!
In 2012 we will be taking a Walk Thru the Bible...Book by Book in a fun and exciting way!
5:30-6:00pm Bring your dinner and enjoy a time of fellowship during dinner… and sometimes a movie too!
6:00-7:30pm We will explore our Bibles through different outlets such as Devotions and Bible Stories, Fun Food and Amazing Science experiments, games, movies, and more!
*Children’s choirs are also held during this time. Children can participate in both programs. Just let us know and we will take care of getting them to and from choir.
Andy Ambrose Sherrie Ambrose Erin Adams Dana Bixler David Carter Cherie Clark Eric Clark Ken Clark Sheila Cordea Stacy Crist Jeff DeLawter Nicole DeLawter Rebecca Engelman Jeff Haley Jodi Haley Shawnda Hamilton Jenn Hans Dana Hart Nikki Horther Lynette Jehl Heather Jenkinson Carole Krizon Margaret Krizon Katherine Lopez Stephanie Mallory Julie Massey Alex Murotani Allison Murray Jackie Murray Julie McKay Nancy Myers Hannah Nickeson Kim O’Connor Yolanda Pepper Chris Robinson Emma Robinson Marsha Robinson Travis Robinson Sandi Schaefer Nancy Schantz Lisa Schelchty Amy Smith Maddie Weber Beth Wetherill Haley Wetherill Tassica Yambor
An Appreciation Brunch was held May 23rd to show our gratitude for the many hours of service these special people gave during the 2009/2010 school year.
Please contact Joan Schell if you are interested in serving in the Children’s Ministry programs that will begin in September 2010. (kidsmagnet @ yahoo.com or 432-1524)

LOOKING AHEAD….
>In January Joan and John will head to the Children’s Pastor’s Conference to interact with 2500 other leaders who share their focus and passion. They will browse through the largest gathering of children’s ministry resource providers available. Most of all, they will return equipped, motivated and challenged to increase their effectiveness in ministry to the children of Aldersgate in 2012!
>Winter/Spring 2012 we are working on offering a self-defense class for children as a follow-up to the Stranger Safety class that was held for the children in the fall of 2011.
>Fall...Watch for an Aldersgate MOPS group and/or MomsNEXT group for our parents. (mops.org/momsnext)

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Construction on “The Street” is beginning this winter! Thank you to everyone who has helped support this project through gifts and prayer. It will be a wonderful new place for our children to come and experience God and grow in their faith! A special thanks to Marge Herbst and the Crist family for gifting us our new Check-In System!

Cradle Care News
Cradle Care is a program designed to care for the family during the pregnancy months, at birth, and during the first year. We will help with meals, snow shoveling, childcare for older
siblings, transportation, etc. as needed. We will visit and pray for them, as well as help in any other way the new families may need. This connection will also help them transition their new little one into the Nursery on Sundays and get the parents connected with other families of little ones at Aldersgate.
Please keep the families of Wendy and Cliff Ellis, Liz and Brian O’Connor, and Megan and Jeff Hartzell in your prayers as they prepare for the birth of their babies during the Thanksgiving and Christmas holidays.
Cradle Care is excited to announce that we have another baby on the way in May of 2012!

Mark Landon Metzler
was born on
9-28-11
Congratulations to parents ~ Rod and Marie and big brother Luke

Pre K and Kindergarteners receive Bibles
On Sunday, November 20th our four and five year olds and Kindergartners received their new Children’s Bible….. Bibles to bring to church and Bibles to read at home!
Thank you to Charlie and Marge Herbst for this generous gift of Bibles for the children.
*Charlie Herbst is now with our Lord, but his gift lives on with the children through a Bible fund that he and Marge set up many years ago. Thank you Charlie and Marge!

J12 Club…is an Amazing Place to be for Tweens!
“Reaching a generation before they need to be rescued.”
J12 has been an exciting new class for our tweens—4th, 5th and 6th graders! In November the tweens sat with John Schell and discussed the program and where they would like it to head….
They love the class, curriculum, and lessons—it is so relevant to their age and experiences. John and Joan will look into more curriculum and t-shirts as they attend the Children’s Pastor’s Conference in January 2012.
They want t-shirts with the J12 logo and ‘I Must’ printed on them so they can share the program with their friends when they ask “ you must do what?’ … ”I Must be about my Father’s business!” T-shirt order forms will be available in 2012.
They want to get involved with some type of hands-on mission work. John will find several options and discuss them with the tweens and let them decide on a mission project for 2012.
They want to learn more about their Bible and really start digging into it. In conjunction with the church’s year- long trek through the Bible in 2012, these tweens will also be spending the year exploring the Bible through their lessons.
They wanted J12 to continue to be offered at Kid’s Club on Wednesday nights. A J12 component was added to Kid’s Club in October for 3rd—5th grade and will continue to meet.
For many ‘tween’s this is a hard age to find the perfect fit at church. The J12 Club has filled that gap! Join us on Sunday mornings during the 10:00am worship service and at Kid's Club on Wednesdays, from 5:30-7:30pm.

Questions? Contact Joan Schell, Director of Children’s Ministries, at 432-1524 x210 or kidsmagnet@yahoo.com
Or John Schell, Cradle Care and J12 Coordinator, at 432-1524 x241 or johnschell40@yahoo.com

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Music, Worship & Arts Ministries

Spectacular Christmas Program, Meal and Other Upcoming Events

Yes, that is the title of this year's Christmas Program presented by the Music and Worship Arts Ministries. It is not a Musical this year or a Cantata. It is a vibrant celebration of the birth of our Lord Jesus!!! Should it be called A Christmas Spectacular?
No. Here's why. The definition of spectacular is something that is "extremely impressive or grand" "very Sudden or Extreme and therefore attracting a lot of attention". In the sense of the dramatic arts it is "a single dramatic production of unusual length or lavishness". What we do here in the Aldersgate Music & Arts Ministries is not the spectacular part. It is what GOD did at Christmas that is Spectacular. Think of the Scriptures "and SUDDENLY, there was with the angel a MULTITUDE OF THE HEAVENLY HOSTS praising GOD and saying, 'Glory to God in the Highest and on Earth Peace, Good Will toward men.' “ Can you imagine that? I mean--being there seeing & hearing the angels in the Heavens? WOW!! Talk about impressive and grand! Talk about sudden or extreme! And what about the production of unusual length or lavishness? Well, it only started at Christmas. And it was 33 years long. Yes, God's Spectacular took this being of Jesus and lavished Him on the world for 33 years with love, compassion, miracles, teachings, laughter, song, food, drink and ultimately His very life. Then there's the rest of the story which is The Lavishness continues. Yes, God continues to bless us with each & every one of these things that Christ gave & taught. And they will continue to be with those generations to come.
So, Friends, we want to celebrate this Spectacular Christmas Gift. On Saturday, December 17 at 3:30 p.m. we will do just that. Every one of our music groups from the youngest children, through the teens and adults, we will present music to lift our hearts & souls with the Christmas Spirit. We will dance, ring handbells, play instruments, hear the Scriptures. Please come celebrate with us. Let us all join together, lavishing our love on God by rejoicing at His birth! A SPECTACULAR CHRISTMAS----indeed!
SPECTACULAR CHRISTMAS MEAL
I like being a Methodist for many reasons. But one reason is that Methodists love to eat!! Well, maybe most of us do. Anyway, sharing a meal together is terrific fellowship. It is an ancient habit---breaking bread together. Just look in the Bible, both Old & New Testaments. People are eating together on so many occasions. Of course we in the Music Ministry want to behave in a very Biblical way, so we are going to have a supper after the Christmas Program on December 17. How's that for rationalizing?????
But truly, there is a great reason for this meal. You see, our music teens, Renaissance Praise (H.S. Music & Drama), Teen Praise (M.S. Music & Drama) and Festive Praise (teen handbells grades 6-12) will be travelling to Kentucky in July 2012 for their semi-annual Musical & Mission Tour. It is a tremendous outreach to people to whom they bring their music and drama ministry as well as a terrific experience for the teens themselves. (I used to take them to Ohio and West Virginia but Dee takes them to Kentucky. We are just hillbilly girls at heart!) December 17 will be a day when we as a Community can stand behind these young people with our support. They will be offering a Chili Supper immediately following the Program, so we hope you will stay on for awhile, have supper, share in fellowship with lots of others and in the meantime, help provide some financial support for these groups.
They also will be having a Bake Sale that day. You'll find baked goods available in the morning of the 18th between and after the worship services and again after the program and during the meal as well.
One other type of support we will provide is a Free Will Offering during the Program. For the last 2 years, we have not taken up an offering at any of our programs which were then part of our Concert & Event Series. Instead, we had donation plates available if people chose to give. But to me, this occasion is different. These teens are such terrific kids who work extremely hard to spread the Good News of Jesus Christ by giving of their talents. You can't imagine some of the stories we have heard over the years of the ways they have touched hearts and souls of people we have visited on these trips. I made the decision to take up an offering at this year's program and have it go toward their trip. I hope our Community will generously support them!
January 2012
The new year will begin with a delightful celebration of Epiphany. Our Children's Music Ministry groups will join together with Children's Ministry as we did last year to present a Children's Epiphany Program and meal. (I just Love being a Methodist!!! Another meal!!!) This event was so fun last year, we just have to repeat it. Watch for more detailed information to come.
February 2012 & Beyond
When we had presented the Concert and Event series during these past two years, some of our guest musicians loved playing and/or singing their music in Aldersgate's Sanctuary. They have requested the opportunity to present programs here. Therefore, on Monday, February 27 at 7:00 p.m. and Monday, April 30 at 7:00 p.m. The Old Crown Brass Band will return, presenting what promises to be two outstanding concerts.
The Summit City Singers will return for a concert on Sunday, May 20 at 3:30 in the afternoon. People delight in hearing this 60 voice choir of men and women under the direction of Judy King.
Watch for news of our Music and Arts Ministries' plans for the Easter Season. We will look forward to a SPECTACULAR EASTER as well as this year's SPECTACULAR CHRISTMAS!
Blessings,
Marlane

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Miss Dee’s Music , Memories and More...

Time for celebration…choir season is in full swing!
School started and time to get back to routine…right? For me, just as I was returning to what I once called ‘normal’, my foot decided to show me otherwise. After 3 surgeries since September, the last one being Nov. 4, I am hoping I am on my way healing for a final time for my left foot.
I am blessed with a job that I find inspiring. What could be more fun? Music speaks to my heart and soul, it says things that I could never express in any other way, and, in it, praising God is at the base of the work I do. Pretty exciting for me! I am thankful that our Church allows me to continue working, even if I am limited in my mobility. So thankful for the electronic scooter that has been made available for my use, it allows me to be at AUMC. Special thanks to Marlane and Joan as they have helped keep rehearsals running when I have been unable to be in attendance. Doctor says I am on a 12-week journey, and as I write this, I am completing week one. Continued prayers welcomed!
Under our Music & Drama, we have something for everyone! We are open to all, no previous experience, no audition, no hassle, and no stress. The ministry is here for you to participate and have fun praising God, when and how you can. Would I like for you to be here at all times? Of course. I love seeing everyone, having time to connect and have fun in fellowship. But I know reality. I understand schedule conflicts and other interruptions. Don’t let that stop you from joining us! The following groups are ones I direct:
JOYFUL NOISE Ages 4& 5 and Kindergarten Wednesday, 5:00p.m. – 5:25p.m.
KIDS PRAISE 1ST & 2ND Grade Wednesday, 6:00p.m. – 6:25p.m.
JUBILANT PRAISE 3rd, 4th & 5th Grade Wednesday, 6:30p.m. – 7:10p.m.
CHIME PRAISE 3rd, 4th & 5th Grade Wednesday, 7:15p.m. – 7:45p.m.
CALLING ALL YOUTH!!!
TEEN PRAISE Vocal Music & Drama 6TH, 7TH & 8TH Grade Thursday, 5:00p.m. – 6:00p.m.
RENAISSANCE PRAISE Vocal Music & Drama 9TH, 10TH, 11TH & 12TH Grade Sunday, 5:15p.m. – 6:15p.m.
FESTIVE PRAISE English Hand Bell Ringers
6TH - 12TH Grade Sunday, 11:15p.m. – 12:15p.m
PSALM 100 A group designed around adults & youth, who enjoy the more contemporary feel.
Our rehearsal times vary, according to when we are sharing in Worship.
If you are interested please contact me.
Yes, we have a lot to offer and want to be open to all. So please, come join us! If my groups don’t fit you, check with Marlane, I know we have a place for you!
All of the groups have shared in Worship, and are working on music for upcoming dates.
There are some special dates, outside of Worship, you need to mark on your calendar. December 17 at 3:30 all of the music groups will be sharing a SPECTACULAR CHRISTMAS. More information can be found in the newsletter. Following the afternoon of music, our teen music groups will be hosting a Chili Supper. This is going to be a way to raise funds for our upcoming trip to KY Summer 2012. Come and spend the day with your community of faith. It will be filled with beautiful music, great food, fellowship and fun!
The next important date is Saturday, January 7th 2012. Our children will be celebrating Epiphany and will be sharing their musical THE TWELVE DAYS OF CHRISTMAS. Education Council will be hosting A KINGS FEAST, pot luck dinner following the program. Be on the look out for additional information.
Make sure you attend one of the three Christmas Eve services, watch for information. Also, Christmas Day and New Year’s Day are on a Sunday. If you are in town, make it a point to attend. Plans are in the making and you won’t want to miss it. Music will be flowing, celebrating Christmas.
Shew…a lot happening! Even if music is not your thing, I pray you will find a way to be inspired to praise God, and be an active part of our community of faith!
I am pleased to call each of you family, my family of faith! Till next time, may God hold you in the palm of his hand!
Ms. Dee

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Aldersgate Bear Creek Native American Mission

New Kind of Christmas Project
Do you know where "The Gallery" is? It is the area where the Native American pictures & quilts are displayed. Where the entrance of the Library is. Just down the hall (through those big, crazy, wooden fire doors) from the parlor, the choir room and around the corner from the Lounge. We hope you will take some time to stop by there as it is an interesting place. Pastor Derek named it "The Gallery". Great name! I like it! We take tremendous pride in what we have accomplished as part of our Aldersgate Bear Creek Native American Mission.
We are planning to send Christmas presents again this year. Do you realize that this is the 17th year that we will be sending Christmas gifts to children in the Bear Creek Community? We also will be reaching out to others beyond Bear Creek who live there on the Cheyenne River Sioux Indian Reservation.
Our gift drive will be a little different this year. If you take a little walk to "The Gallery", you will notice a Christmas tree with tags shaped like tipis, bears, horses or buffalo. On each tag is a name of a child or family member, ages, size & gift choice. We ask that you remove one or more tags, purchase the gift & bring it to Marlane at the church (or choir room) by Thursday, December 15. Please leave the gifts UNWRAPPED as it will be easier for us to ship them if each gift is not in an individual box. You are welcome to include a personal note or Christmas card to the person as well and pin or tape it to the gift. We hope this will be an especially meaningful event for us providing the gifts & for those who will be receiving them.
Back Packs
The Back Pack project initiated by KyeLeigh Arnold was a great success! The children were thrilled with the new packs and all of the new school supplies! Pat Becker & I transported 138 packs to South Dakota in July. There were 53 which went to the Bear Creek Kids and all of the remaining packs went to the Fourth Graders at the Eagle Butte Elementary School. Please come to see our bulletin board in "The Gallery" where you'll see the thank you notes from the kids and pictures of the recipients in Bear Creek. Again, thanks so much to the Arnolds for the idea of providing these gifts and for all of the hard work they did to make this happen!!! Also, thanks to so many people who helped and especially Pat Becker for helping me get the packs to the Reservation.
Our Own Native American Aldersgaters
Did you know we have an Aldersgate family who are of Native American descent and are actively involved in local Native American cultural activities? Tim Lawhead has ancestors who were American Indians here in this area. Tim is a member of our church & is one of our Boy Scout Leaders of Troup 349. That Boy Scout Troup has been very actively involved in many projects on the Cheyenne River Reservation over the years through the efforts of their leader Tom Watson and in recent years, Tim has led the boys there. Tim is a Native American Traditional Dancer at pow wows and other celebrations and has encouraged his children to dance. His son Landon has been dancing in pow wows & this past summer has participated in what is called Men's Fancy Dance. I had the privilege of watching him dance at the pow wow in Columbia City last August and he was very, very good! His younger sister, Sydney does the Jingle Dance quite beautifully! Tim makes all of their outfits--called regalia--and obviously makes them so artistically with tremendous time, care & love.
Their older sisters, Liza and Meri are involved in a very special project. They are starting a chapter of The Pink Shawl Society of Northeast Indiana. This group is one which encourages women on reservations to learn more about prevention of Breast Cancer. Oftentimes Native Americans are not well informed of medical issues. The Pink Shawl Society teaches the women & girls a special dance, how to make the shawls and distributes information to them about Breast Cancer Awareness. Liza & Meri lost their Mom to Breast Cancer when they were very young...Liza just finishing the 3rd grade & Meri just a baby. Their work in this Society is being done to help others remain healthy but just as importantly, to honor their Mother's memory. These lovely young women were participants in my music groups years ago here at Aldersgate and I feel especially blessed to have had them in my life. It is terrific to see them being a part of such a special group now in the Pink Shawl Society.
Thank you (Pilamiya) ahead of time for your support of our Christmas Project! Blessings & Peace to You All! Marlane

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New Focus For Our Ecuador Mission

Formal education for a child in the Intag region of Ecuador typically consists of three to four years in a community based public primary school. Middle school and beyond is rarely achieved. Although public education through high school is available to everyone, the cost of daily transportation from the Intag’s remote rural villages to the secondary schools located in small towns is prohibitive for most families. “It costs about $100 per student per year to provide daily bus service to the high school,” says Peter Shear, Executive Director of Inter-American CASA (CASA), Aldersgate’s mission facilitator and partner in Ecuador. “$100 doesn’t seem like much, but when a family’s total annual income is less than $1000, it’s a huge obstacle.”
In Pucará, the economically marginalized village which, since 2007, has been the focus of Aldersgate’s Ecuador mission efforts, public school instruction is available through third grade. The school buildings are, by our standards, in poor repair and primitively equipped. They are well staffed, however, and are meeting their functional need. Almost all of the children in the village finish second grade, and many complete third. Education beyond this point, however, requires a daily trip of ten miles and a drop of 1500 meters to Apuela, the nearest trading center and town of significance. The road is difficult, and very few families have access to automobiles. Occasionally, someone from Pucará manages to graduate from high school. Usually, their education stops by third grade, and they stay at home, helping their parents until, as adolescents, they being migrating to the larger cities in Ecuador to seek work.
So far, our work in Ecuador has been, through CASA, to help establish a working infrastructure for the village (housing, community center, water supply, Spanish School, etc), and by doing so in turn support sustainable micro-economic development, which might then provide enough opportunity to help stem the migration of youth to the cities. In many ways our efforts, coupled with those of others, have been successful. Pucará now has a thriving Community Center that is in great demand, and is a source of income for the village. Housing has been dramatically improved for many villagers. A new, safer, water supply is in place. There are signs of micro-businesses springing up (including a road-side “Barbeque” serving grilled meats and sugar cane juice). Nevertheless, the young people continue to leave. Those of us who have made repeat visits to the village have been dismayed to find that many of our young friends are nowhere to be found, having left for the excitement of the big city, and for work. With minimal education, their prospects are limited.
Although work on Pucará’s housing and infrastructure will continue, many of the high-priority projects have been completed. For the time being, CASA has asked Aldersgate to consider moving its focus to supporting the education of the children and youth. This is a vote of confidence and appreciation for Aldersgate, as we are essentially being called to undertake long-term commitment to and investment in the development and well being of the community. The new focus and commitment will at first take the form of raising funds for transportation from Pucará to the secondary schools in Apuela. Since each year there are 10 to 15 children who are eligible for secondary schooling, this would mean raising $1000 to $1500 per year. Historically, we have been able to raise more than this each year through our Christmas Sale of Ecuadorian items, and other donations - so it should be possible right away. Over the longer term, we may be able to create an “education fund” sufficient to produce enough income each year to pay for transportation. Eventually, once there is stable support for transportation, we may be able to fund additional improvements in education. For now, though, the focus must be on tackling the transportation problem.
There have been several inquiries as to future mission trips to Ecuador. With this new focus on education, and with less pressing need for construction labor in Pucará, we anticipate sponsoring a bi-annual, rather than annual trip for members of the Aldersgate Community. On alternate years, if necessary, a smaller contingent may visit Pucara to develop and keep tabs on the education projects. We anticipate that the next large contingent, open to both Youth and Adults will be in the Spring of 2013. If you have interest in participating in this mission trip, please contact Robin Shear, at 260-602-9054, or drrobinshear@yahoo.com.

History of the Aldersgate Ecuador Mission
Aldersgate has donated countless hours and more than $30,000 to help the community of Pucará in the Intag region of Ecuador. Here is what we have accomplished so far:
In 2007, the church funded building materials for a community center in the village and two complete homes for economically marginalized families that had been living in rudimentary shelters. A volunteer group travelled to Pucará to construct the homes and community center.
In 2008, Aldersgate funded materials for a kitchen addition to the previous year’s community center. A volunteer delegation once again travelled to Pucará and helped construct several wash stations and a community sewer line in addition to the kitchen. The community center is the largest gathering space in the region, and now houses meetings and events, and is a source of revenue for the village.
In 2009, Aldersgate volunteers sponsored and built the foundation for another addition to the community center, dug trenches to replace the community water supply line and cleared space for community gardens.
In 2010, the Aldersgate community contributed funds to support the development of a Spanish language school, staffed by village residents, which provides language lessons, for a fee, to service learning groups in the area, and consequently brings another stream of income into the community.
In 2011, we undertook our fourth Aldersgate Ecuador Mission Trip and work delegation. We funded materials for, and helped construct a recycling center, improvements to the community center plaza, repairs to the village entry plaza, and repairs to the Spanish School.

Questions and Answers about Stephen Ministry

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Confidentiality is an essential key to Stephen Ministry. But what does confidentiality mean?
As the care receiver and Stephen Minister meet, the care receiver usually shares many details about themselves, their family, the situation that burdens them and other personal feelings. The Stephen Minister is committed to keeping those details secret. That is the essence of confidentiality.
While the Stephen Minister must prepare an oral report for her/his small Supervisory group, the purpose of the report is to keep the relationship healthy. The focus of the report is on the process of the caring relationship, not the details or the progress.
Below are some examples of oral reports “My care receiver’s parent has died and she is struggling with grief. She has no family in the immediate area. We have met weekly for the past month. She called me once on an especially difficult day. We are comfortable with each other. She often tells me she feels lighter after we talk. I can see her improving. The Stephen Ministers can help us by keeping us in your prayers.”
“My care receiver has recently moved, started a new job and feels down. We’ve met several times in the past 6 weeks, and talked on the phone at least once a week. He has made some friends, and is more comfortable in his job now. I believe the Stephen Ministry relationship will end within the next 6 weeks. The Stephen Ministers can help our relationship by keeping us in your prayers.”
You will notice that the report has been designed with just four questions to inform the small group of the: nature of the crisis, how often the meetings are, how the relationship is going, and how support can be given to the Stephen Minister within the relationship. Any other details are not necessary. The small group may ask questions to clarify but not to pry. The small group is listening and analyzing because their efforts are to protect the Stephen Minister from trying to fix the problem or from identifying too greatly with the crisis. Plus the small group has the serious responsibility to pray in support of the caring relationship and the Stephen Minister in it.
Confidentiality is maintained on several levels. The Stephen Minister does not reveal too much information. Any questions asked are only to clarify. Individual Stephen Ministers in the small group may not repeat any information shared. Individual Stephen Ministers are forbidden to try “to guess” who is the care receiver as a report is given. The Stephen Minister cannot reveal to anyone who is the care receiver. Only the care receiver can say they have a Stephen Minister. If you are experiencing a burden that has pulled you down, and you desire a Stephen Minister, please contact Dr. Derek Weber at 432-1524, Linda Davis at 432-4935, or Karen Bandelier at (260)244-5429. No one can take this step for you. It is your decision. Jesus and a trained Stephen Minister are ready to walk with you through this rough spot in your life. Let a Christian, caring friend walk alongside you, and with Jesus’ help, you find peace and hope again.

IHN Through Aldersgate

I’m still convinced that Interfaith Hospitality Network is a fine organization with top-notch leadership and staff. It excites me every time the volunteer sheet gets full! And it always has! Also, what’s amazing is that Aldersgate still has members who willingly take the time and energy to be volunteers to add a little or a lot to the comfort and relieving the stress of IHN guests.
Linda Rogers, who has been with IHN for over 10 years, told me that they have turned away many families this summer and early fall because of being full. 78 families during September (turned away). This is personally very hard on her. IHN has been full since April.
Empty Bowls as a moneymaker is a new idea that board members wanted to try. There were 3 churches that hosted this event. Aldersgate, Trinity Episcopal, and Plymouth. Volunteer individuals, students from Huntington University and St. Francis made over 575 bowls to be sold at the 3 churches.
Five AUMC volunteers made at least nine crock-pots of soup at AUMC alone! Our soup makers were Susan Knake, Ginny Johnson, Roy Horther, Grace Cisna and Sally Witwer. Chuck and Karen Bandelier set up the drink station. Aaron Orr and Andrew White sold the bowls. Other volunteers: Eunita Sullivan created the insert, Nikki Horther, Linda Sackman, Kathy Routen, Brian Witwer, Bruce Guebard and Carl Cisna. Through this effort AUMC made $580.00 for IHN. Thank you to all these volunteers and to the members who came and the members who bought bowls.
Also, the following AUMC volunteers provided dinners to a full house(38 residents) at the IHN residence between October 23-29: Nancy Gaunt, Carole Stanelle, Cathy Fisher, Mauna Cowen, Evonne and Rik Stephens, members of Ruth Circle, Sally and Brian Witwer, Phyllis and Bob Kent, Susan Knake, David and Judy Melton, Linda Davis, Juanita Lee, Ellie and Eric Nickeson and friends, Roy and Nikki Horther, Roberta and Tom Watson, Janet Sylvester, Tom and Linda Sackman, Sally Johnson and Martha Double.
Volunteers and myself must admit we must always keep in mind: the guests’ lives are in the “always changing mode”, and that this activity, providing food, is always a guessing game. I want to thank these good people for not getting discouraged. Sometimes it is like providing an umbrella and it stops raining. The caring is part of the process. Thank you all.
Sally Witwer

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